Keeping up with the changes in our relationships.

As time goes by, our relationships are bound to change. For some, these times of change and growth can be emotional, confusing and challenging. Here are some areas where I've helped others:

Marital Issues: Over the years, marriages may endure some painful times. Trust and intimacy may become more difficult to maintain. Communication weakens. One partner might be fighting the desire to stray. My role is to help partners understand one another, re-establish healthy communication and find common goals in order to create a deeper, more satisfying marriage.

In the event of divorce, you'll also find Dr. Haynes to be a valuable resource in helping you get through the divorce process without the anger and bitterness that so often undermine families.

Sexual Fulfillment: Do you find you can't enjoy erotic love in marriage? Do you use sex to cling to someone just so you won't feel alone? Do you feel shame or rejection for your sexual feelings? Do you only enjoy sex as long as you feel the other person idolizes you or you idolize them? Do you act seductively, but find sex itself repugnant? Dr. Haynes can help you bring together your sexual needs and a real, loving, committed relationship.

Family Conflicts: Problems with your in-laws are causing tension. You're caring for an elderly parent. Your grown child is still living at home. Your stepchildren are coming between you and your spouse. Such stresses can take a toll, resulting in hostility, poor communication and a breakdown of the family structure. Dr. Haynes' goal is to help you develop the emotional tools you need to face these challenges effectively.